My daugther was a mess this weekend fighting with all her friends. Her friends hated her BF and I ended up not liking him either. I told her a few weeks ago that she could not see him anymore because he was just way too controlling over her and I hated it. I seen my daughter change and it was driving me crazy. That made her pretty much hate me for the last few weeks. It has not been easy. Even tho I told her I am not here for a popularity contest. Anyway, she was still talking to him at school and texting him. Marco told me when I got home Friday that he drove her home from school. I was pissed... she knows she is not supposed to drive with him at all EVER! So instead of arguing with her AGAIN I decided that I would punish her another way. I made her clean all the bathrooms 3 of them to be exact LOL. I was enjoying it but was also gonna let her know I know what she did. She was so pissed at me she mumbled around the house with a huge attitude. Later that night we were talking and I was twirling her hair like I always do and I knotted it up in my hand and said I know that he drove you home today... the look on her face was priceless. See I normally yell but I am trying to change that. I told her if it happens again she will lose all her privileges to anything enjoyable. Saturday as soon as she wakes up she starts crying because of her friends. By the afternoon I was so sick of hearing it but she continued anyway. I went to bed and got up to go to the bathroom at like midnight and she came in the bathroom crying again. I kept telling her you and your friends will make up just go to sleep. I was just very tired of listening to her cry. I got up Sunday for church and she was not up I didn't wake her. I got a text from her in church that she was hanging with those same friends she was crying over ALL WEEKEND. I wanted to say I told you so but I didn't. Nick and I went to lunch and I got a text from Marco that floored me. It was a text telling me he was stressed out from a text he got from Sarah's X BF. I told him to forward it to me. When I got it my jaw hit the ground. He told Marco he touched Sarah and I won't go into details at all. I really didn't know how to react to it. I know she is 16 but I really didn't think that about her. I mean I didn't have sex til I was 19 almost 20. I wanted nothing to do with any of it at 16. It wasn't even that bad but still that is my little girl. I almost started crying and I wonder where she gets her dramatics from LOL. When I got home I showed her the text and she nodded her head yes. I told her that I was disappointed in her and that why would she want to talk to someone that talks shit about her like that. She said Marco already told me that you knew and I am not talking to him ever again. I then forwarded the text to the little shit and said that is the way you talk about my daughter. I also said if he does anything like this again I was gonna show his parents. His response to me was go ahead they know what I do and don't care. WTF???????? A part of me wants to lock my daughter up until she is 18 but I know she needs to learn the life lessons that we all did. I just don't know. I am trying my best to take everything with a grain of salt but it is hard!
So that is how my weekend ended.
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2 comments:
OMG you are scaring me! I am having enough trouble dealing with my teenage son. I will be in for it when my baby girl gets there. I agree with you totally, the little shit needs for his parents to find out, unless they really dont care, but they have to expect their child to be respectful especially to girls. Gah! I am not looking forward to this drama.
It is not fun!!! The worst part is I just see her changing so much. I know she has a good head on her shoulders but I told her this is a really good learning lesson for her. Marco was really upset too I means seriously who would do that??? I will see him tonight at the football game it is gonna be so hard to not punch him :) I don't really think his parents care which is sad.
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