being real

I haven't been posting alot because there is just alot going on. I read this blog today about being real when blogging and for the most part I try to be but lately I struggle with that. The old saying "don't air your dirty laundry" but sometimes you need to. It is theraputic to do so. Starting today I am not only posting when I am happy with things but when I am sad with things too because that is what this blog is for.

Let me start with last week... Marco got a one day in school suspension because he was texting during school. That was not the only thing he did last week. I knew something was going on with him he got into the car on Wednesday night and started crying with his friend in the car and I knew that it was something serious. I stopped the car and told him to tell me what is going on. He said that one of his friends (girl) at school went to the office saying that he was sexually harrassing her. I said OMG what the hell did you do??? Him and this girl (I will call her C) have been friends for 2 years. I mean like BFFs. He said in Science class he said he was horny to his friend and she heard him. If you know Marco you know that sometimes he is innappropriate to say the least. His friend that was with us said but C puts her legs all over Marco during class. Then Marco said yeah and she got mad cuz I was rubbing her leg. Nobody from the school called me about this at all. I told Marco then that he needed to start being more aware of what he was saying and who he is saying it to. The part that makes me mad is we are friends with this family and I was shocked that the mom did not call me and tell me what was going on. I told Marco I was going to call her mom and see what was going on. Before I called her tho I did talk to Nick about it and he agreed that I needed to call her mom. That is what I did. I asked her if there was something going on between Marco and C that I needed to know about. She acted shocked that I was calling her. She said yes C does not like when Marco touches her. I said ok I can understand that because Marco is a very touchy kid. I then said are you aware of C putting her legs all over Marco in class. Of course she was not... actually she sounded shocked! She then said that C called her from school crying and the mom and dad both went up there to her defense. They met with the counselor and the charges were filed. I asked her if she knew how serious those charges are? I told her that I was going to the school the next morning to discuss this with the counselor because I did not want Marco to be labled a sexual harrassment offender. I told her that she will not have a problem with Marco again. I also told her that I didn't appreciate her going to the school instead of coming to me because discipline begins at home. I think she knew I was not happy with her. She told me she was going to call the school and cancel the charges. I called the school in the morning to find out that they thought the charges were bogus anyways. They were not going to make a big deal out of at all. Seriously tho I needed this or Marco needed this. Well maybe Marco did to learn a lesson to watch his behavior!

Lets move on to Sarah... nothing serious just girl drama. She is fighting with her BFF and was showing me texts from her BFF that was just horrible. I felt bad for her but told her I would not get involved in a fight like that. Needless to say, she was moody.

Now for my son Dom. I signed on to my online banking on Saturday to check our balance and found out that someone had used my debit card the night before to withdraw $100.00. I was pissed because I knew it was Dom. I called him and asked him and he said yes. I started screaming at him saying what the hell gives you that right. His response to me was I thought I told you. I was just pissed! Actually beyond pissed! That just set the tone for Saturday. Actually kinda ruined my day. It just amazes me that he thought he did nothing wrong but I had a come to Jesus talk with him and he better never do that again.

That feels better... I mean I do have Nick I talk to about this kinda stuff and my BFF but still I hate coming on here and acting fake like yeah we have a grand life always. There is always something going on. I feel refreshed because that is what I started this blog for to air things I normally can't talk about in person and of course to get other people's feedbacks. Sometimes you just need another persons opinion.

I was going to go after work to try to get my hair trimmed but Sarah just called and said Mom can you drive me to cheer at 5:00. I get off at 5:00 so after that I will drive her to cheer instead of getting my hair trimmed. This is my life LOL and I do love it!