I told you of the situation with my sister. I know I keep bringing this up but it is my therapy and to help me forgive. The kids were at their dad's house this weekend. I told you about my sister wanting to call my X about the twins going to her wedding. Well, she did and as weird as it is he stuck up for me. I was shocked when the kids told me that. They said he sat them down and asked their side of the story. My sister told him she invited me but I am refusing to come and that my mom was coming too. LIAR!!!! So when my X sat them down they told him that these were lies. He was pissed and told her there is nothing he can do for her. I guess in his own way I feel that he stuck up for me by taking my side. I was happy about that! I took the kids tanning yesterday and I was sitting in the car waiting so I decided to text my youngest niece (she lives with my sister) and guess what I was blocked! I cannot call her or text her. I was upset but ok I understand. Then the kids got in the car and Marco said that my sister still keeps texting and calling him. I cannot block his phone because it is in my X's name and I don't want to go thru that BS. Anyway, I got home put on my walking shoes, took my phone and off I went. As I was walking I got more pissed because it is ok for her to protect her daughter (even tho I have never said word out of the way to her) but I can't mine. So I sent a text to her phone this is exactly what it said "you have blocked me from texting K so respect my wishes as a parent and don't call or text my kids". I continued on my walk and was glad I got that off my chest. I get a text back that says "don't text this number again or I will contact the police". I didn't text her back. Then I get a text from a police officer from her phone telling me to cut off any means of communications to them and the minor children!!!!!?????!!!!!! WTF! It had a number on there for me to call to confirm. I called and left a message for the officer to call me back which he did and it was real. I told the officer I sent 1 text and it was to ask her to stop texting my kids. The officer then told me that she had permission from my X to talk to the kids. I was like ok. Who am I to argue with a police officer. He told me if I didn't want her texting the kids that I needed to call the police in my area. Ok that isn't going to happen. I am not wasting a police officers time to come to my house to file a report. Can you believe the nerve of her tho. She wants (as always) her way. The rules only apply to everyone else not her. I know my X didn't tell her that because the kids told me that. I feel so sorry for my niece and my kids. This is such BULLSHIT! She spins her nasty little web around my son and it pisses me off. She texted him this morning "Hey buddy I hope you have a good day at school. I love you!!!" Give me a freggen break if she loved him she would not put him in the position she has. I told him to not respond to her at all. This is just insane!!!! I hate it!!!!
I have prayed again about it! I just feel mad on one hand and blessed on the other. I know that sounds stupid but I look at it this way maybe it took this to really realize the relationship that we don't have. I could never call the police on her. Our relationship has been that way our whole life. She always does the hurting and I always try to pick up the pieces. I am not picking up the pieces anymore. I am choosing to move on and forgive her because that is what is best for me. I feel blessed because I have such wonderful friends in my life. I have 3 best friends that are like sisters to me that I am so thankful for. I know that they are always there for me. I have 3 great kids and a wonderful husband who I adore. So for me it was just another life lesson that I needed to learn.
On the other hand today at work they did a commercial from my store. I know it is exciting news isn't it? LOL The director asked me if I wanted to do it and I said no of course. See I have to wear this stupid uniform. It is a button down oxford with our stores name on it with khaki or blue pants. UGHHHH! I hate them because no matter what size you get it is still a mans shirt and looks like crap. So I did not want to see myself on TV constantly with this shirt on LOL plus I probably would of froze in front of the camera.
I am meeting with the youth minister from our church tonight to see where I could fit in as a volunteer with the youth group. I am very excited about that. I love kids so this will be good for me and my kids because hopefully they will get involved then. They do alot with the kids. The kids do alot for the community. In fact, they went to my mom's nursing home and did bingo but OMG that is another story in itself LOL. My mom really made an impression on the kids that go to school with mine. The next day in school all these kids were coming up and telling my kids your grandma is sooooo cute! LOL I will share that story just not now. My mom is hiliarious!
So I am moving forgiving and moving forward! This blog is such good therapy for me I love it!
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OMG. You poor thing. Your sister is toxic to your positive attitude. How crazy is that to call the cops?! Keep praying. I tell you what, if my ex EVER stuck up for me, I would completely die of shock! LOL. I think you would love volunteering with the youth group. I work in a school, I love all the kids and have fun, but I tell ya, it is the end of the school year and I can't wait to be off! I will be happy to see them again next year tho. ;-)
Your exactly right she is toxic!!! I normally say poison LOL. I know I almost went off on the cop LOL but I kept my cool. I was trying to tell him that the only reason I texted was to tell her to stop texing my kids. Then I gave up... I was like OK have a good day! blah blah blah I pray everyday about it! I was shocked that my X did that as well he normally never does that, but he knows what she is like so maybe that is why. I am looking forward to voluntering with the youth group it does not officially start til the fall but I am excited about it! I love kids! I am meeting with the youth group Sunday night to get used to the kids. Have a good one :)
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