Is this a movie --- can't be real

This is gonna be a long one so grab a cup of coffee before you start. I go thru life thinking that most everyone has the same morals or beliefs that I do. I know this is not true but for the most part everyone that I have in my life does. I choose it that way. What I am about to say is not even gonna sound real to you and me well I am still trying to process this and I didn't even sleep last night because of it.

I have quite a few friends that I have had since Elementary school and High school. My feeling on that is it is hard to find good friends so when you do you need to hang on to them. I have this one friend I will call him T and we have been friends since Kindergarten. In High school he started dating my good friend I will call her S. I told her at the time not to because he was known as a womanizer. They have been together since. They have had a pretty rocky marriage for the whole marriage but they have stayed together. They have 2 boys that are right around the ages my of kids. Me and S were very close when I stayed home and my kids were little. We would go to one anothers house and just hang out with the kids all day. The more time went on I noticed her kids were kinda mean to mine which I was not very fond of and I noticed she was very obsessed with T. She would not do anything on her own. I would call her to go out with me to Wal Mart and she would not go. T traveled alot and was gone most of the time. She would just sit home and do nothing. I still remained friends with her but we just mostly talked on the phone. I would always tell her she needed to do something for herself and quit being so obsessed with T. She used to always tell me she would die without him. I would always assure her that she would not and she needed to get more independant. This drove me crazy!!! When I got divorced she was always there for me to talk to. She really is a wonderful person just obsessed with her husband. He always had this sick control over her.

Her mom called one night and told me that S was drinking and out of control. I said why? Her mom wanted me to come over her house and talk to S. So I went over there to find S shaking and just full of anxiety. I kept asking her what was wrong? She would say I don't know I just feel anxious. She was going to her dr and he had her on some anxiety medicine and it still was not helping. I tried to talk to her and sooth her in some way it just did not work. A few days after that T called me and told me she had a drinking problem. I was in shock because she really was never a drinker. I kept asking him what is going on with her. He would say I don't know but I am taking her to rehab. After I hung up with T, S called me back to tell me in her drunk voice saying that she was not going to rehab. I told her then if she had a problem she needed to go and that I would come and go with her. She ended up going a few days later T and her mom took her. I was heartbroken for her and wondering what in the heck happened to make her drink the way she had been drinking. T called me every night she was in rehab crying to me on the phone telling me that he hoped it worked and he was not sure what the problem was but that they would find out thru the therapy at rehab. She did her rehab and was alcohol free for 2 years. I would see her occasionally at the stores. Sarah and I ran into her at Wal Mart a year ago and we ended up going back to her house to visit. She told me then that her marriage was not good and they pretty much did their own thing. T still travels alot like he is gone for almost 7 or 8 months a year. I was sad when she said that but could understand because T can be an ass. S has pretty much raised her boys by herself. I have always felt bad for her. So Saturday was her son's grad party. Nick and I got their late because I worked then went home and took a nap because I was exhausted from Kid Rock. There were very few people there when we got there S was sitting at the patio table with 2 guys. I didn't know either of them. She introduced us and one was her neighbor and the other her friend from grade school. He had got in contact with her thru Facebook. T was pissed that he was at the party. I didn't really see anything wrong with it. T stayed in the house with his friend R (that is what I will call him) now keep track of that initial because he comes up later in the story. After everyone else left we stayed and chatted in the garage for a few hours. S and I went in the house and talked. She was showing me all the medicine she is on and I said what is it for. She has high blood pressure and some other things going on. She said her dr thinks the high blood pressure is from stress. She is only about 120 pounds and small. She started talking to me again about her marriage and how she is just not happy. She also confided in me that the friend that was their from grade school she thought she liked. I told her then that I don't promote things like that but life is too short to live the way your living. I left it at that. It is hard for me because I am friends with both of them.

After we left Nick and I talked about it in the car and he said it is clear they really don't have a marriage because T was telling him pretty much the same thing. I said that is so sad. T makes good money and they are not hurting for anything but that just goes to show you money cannot buy you happiness.

Nick and I got up Sunday morning and went to church and Wal Mart when we got home I was still exhausted so I went in the bedroom and laid on the bed watching some movies. We have the caller ID that comes up on our TV. I never usually answer our house phone but it rang and I seen S's name come up. I answered it and said hey. She said what ya doing. I told her I was just relaxing and she told me she was at the friends house. I said what are you doing??? She said I just came over here to visit because I cannot take it at home anymore. She then told me she kept telling T that she was leaving the day after the party. We talked and I told her that maybe the way she was handling things was not the right way. She then told me that she could tell me something that would make me say to leave T right now. I said well you can't say that and then not tell me what is going on. Then she told me that she became an alcholic because T's friend R was divorced and not having sex so T wanted to have a threesome with him, T and S. At this time T had alot of control over her so she said she would. I guess when they got to R's house R could not do it. So T told S a few weeks later that since R could not do the threesome that S should just go over and have sex with him and she did. My heart breaks for her! She did this with R for almost a year. T would call her and say oh stop by R's house on your way home and she did it every time. S finally had enough and said I am not doing this anymore. I was in shock I never once thought any husband would ever do that to his wife let alone T. I just kept saying on the phone OMG are you kidding me. That is why she started drinking because she felt like a whore and who wouldn't feel that way. She was also struggling with the fact that T is her husband and if he loved her how could he make her do that???? I asked her why she never told me and she said she didn't want to break my heart. It did!!! It broke my heart for her!! I told her then that she should of told me because I would of came and got her out of rehab and took her home to divorce his stupid ass!!! I said I am sorry you went thru that alone. I am however happy that you see the wrong in it now and that he has no control over you anymore. I am beyond digusted! I didn't sleep last night because I was so repulsed by it. The part that really gets me is R nor T never thought anything of it. S told me that when T came and seen her in rehab on Mothers Day when he was leaving she said she yelled at him you know why I am here don't you and she said T turned with a tear in his eye and said yes I know why your here. I mean I am not stupid I know things like this happen but OMG it is just disgusting. The other part that pisses me off is just Saturday night T and R are in her kitchen like nothing is wrong like nothing ever happened. FUCKING SICK!!! I told S last night you better get the hell out of that marriage.

I hung up with S and Nick was looking at me like WTF was that about so I told him and his jaw dropped to the ground. At that point, I hugged him and said I am so thankful for you. I am thankful for you every day!!! Could you please keep S in your prayers! I don't know how this will end but I hope it is for the better for S.