The nerve!!!

Over the last few years or so I sometimes get this pain in my shoulder area that seems to come from my neck. It started like last week and last night was killing me to the point I was crabby with everyone! I went to the chiropractor yesterday and today and it seems to be a little bit better but it still hurts :( it is bearable tho! I think it is the way I sit at work because it hurts more when I am sitting. I am glad it is bearable tho and it by tonight it is better :)

Our weekend was pretty laid back. Friday night we went to a car show at my favorite country bar. They have the best outdoor tiki bar ever! We had fun... Sarah's BF came with us... yay! I am not sure about him anymore. He is way too quiet for our family and for her. After the car show we came back home and he came with us. Nick and I were sitting on the couch, Sarah on the love seat and the BF was in the chair. They were both being a little quiet and texting. Nick drove him home and the minute he got out of the car he started calling her saying he was pissed at her because she would not come sit on his lap on the chair. WTF I don't allow that to go on in my house. I hate when kids are hanging all over each other. Anyway, she was not too bothered about it at all which I was happy about. Saturday night we went to our friends for a bonfire and she wanted to know if he could come. I said no because she had been with him for like 3 days in a row. I went on Facebook before we left and her status was... I know there is nothing I can do to make it better??? I asked her what that was about and she said that he told her go to the bonfire and I will sit home with nothing to do. Again WTF???? I was not happy and told her he seems a little bit too controlling but she gave me that look like she was pissed at me so I quit talking. I just decided that I am gonna make it hard on her to see him and eventually maybe he will move on LOL. I just don't understand the control thing and I know she is only 15 and naive but I am trying to show her that it is not right. I know I have to let her learn on her own but damn that is the hardest thing.

Marco is just flat out grounded. He went to the outdoor mall with Colleen on Sunday. I knew my sister was coming to see my mom in her wedding dress and her husband in his tux yuckkk sorry I just threw up in my mouth a little bit LOL. Anyway, Nick and I ended up meeting them at Partridge for a little bit. We got home and I went on Facebook yesterday to see a picture of Marco and my sister in her weddind dress at the mall. I was PISSED!!! I called Colleen to see if she knew anything about it and she didn't. I talked to Marco and he said my sister called him and said where are you... he told her... she came up there and told him to come to parking lot. I asked him where he told Colleen he was going to fill out an application at the Crocs store. He came home didn't say a word to me but did tell Sarah and said don't say anything to mom. There is most of the reason I am pissed because he lied to several people here and he knows he not supposed to talk or see her. I know that sounds retarded but I truly do not want my kids exposed to her bullshit abuse. Like I said before I love her but I choose not to have her in my life as she chooses not to have me in her life. The same goes for my kids why expose Marco to adult business and bullshit when he is only 15. It pisses me off. I have the password for Marco's Facebook because I have been keeping an eye on him without him knowing. I sent her a message from his Facebook again asking her to leave the kids alone. The response I got was GET A CLUE GET A LIFE AND GO TO HELL! Yeah she never does anything wrong. One day she will see what she has done. Anyway so Marco is grounded for lying. I took his Facebook account and changed the password and email so he cannot get into it. I guess he will learn the hard way. I tried to explain to him last night that I am doing this because it is my job as a parent to protect him as much as I can. I said once he is a parent he will understand. I went to see my mom yesterday and all she talked about was my sister coming there in her wedding dress. I let her talk until I had enough and said mom can we change the subject. Then she said Don carried picked her up and carried her out of here too. I could not control my tongue after that I said ok so what he is an asshole! LOL I am still trying to learn to control my mouth and it looks like I failed in this situation. Seriously, I would like some feeback on this... nobody ever comments. So please tell me if I am being a complete ass. I am only doing what a mom does and that is protect.

As for Dom he is all registered and ready for school. He told me he is taking 18 credits. I said Dom that is a little much why not try 12 your first semester and then see how it goes. He said I can do it. I will let him learn on his own :) that is the only thing you can do in that situation. Live and learn we all did it now it is his turn.

I better get back to work :( I hope everyone has a great day!